I want

Since it keeps coming up on how I should know what I want when it comes to men. I'll just try and see if I can write anything.
I want a guy where its okay to expect him to be around.
I want a guy that wants to be around me.
I want a guy that I don't have to explain Shawshank Redemption to.
I want a guy that doesn't greatly enjoy manipulating people so I can know he is being candid with me.
I want him to be moderately attractive. Being able to want to see him naked is kind of important.
I want a guy who I can be proud to introduce to my friends. Meaning he's socially savvy.
I want, confidence. So tired of being dominant most of the time. Would be nice to have someone challenge me.
I want someone to share things with. Someone to cook for, do sappy things for, and feel like I'm pouring my time and energy into a person that actually cares.
I want someone who wants to do something with their lives so I can support them in whatever passions they have.
I want someone who I can talk for hours to about whatever comes to mind.
I want someone who I can be so comfortable with that we can just be with each other in silence.
I want someone who will sing, even if they have a crappy voice. Or play an instrument. I just really swoon over the musically inclined.
I want someone who wants to put the time in to build a strong friendship as well as a relationship.
And I just want this continual fuck and run to end. I am tired of the pretending it didn't happen, awkwardness the next day, friendships being ruined, and having to continually search through all of the "fabulous" guys out around here who totally make me feel awesome with their creepy come on's and not picking up on the hint that I'm not interested.